I've worked with a lot of actresses. And what I find fascinating is that in my idea, if an actress has unexplained infertility, there can be a reason and I want to give you this perspective.
As an actress, it is possible that you have special challenges with conception, because your body can embody so many different roles. And when you commit it with your body, with your soul to playing all these different characters, your body can get confused. An actress if she plays a woman in serious physical danger, who gets shot or chased by criminals. And and she is so good in the embodiment. Her body can feel if it's in a true fight or flight state as an if she's trying to become a mom or her professional role. Yeah, it can be fearful also, for the little soul that either just nestled in the womb or as be or the baby that surrounds her.
This may, of course or may not apply when you're an actress. But if you happen to be an actress, it is interesting to take a look at this perspective. Because what can happen with your body when it's in a constant fight or flight state, it can start to contract and it can get confused. And I want from my book, The Naked Truth of unexplained infertility. read you the story of Remy Remy was an Oscar winning actress.
And when she came to me, she said my body is an acting vehicle. I'm 43 said Remy, and I've been trying for eight years. My doctor told me I should be able to get pregnant. Even though my egg count is low.
Remy she was an award winning Oscar Hollywood actress and she had done everything she could think of. And she tried literally everything and everything and she could not find medical reasons that could block her body.
Now, since the body and mind are connected, the body can put itself on hold and slow egg production. If there is a fear, or if confusion is pregnant, an account can be diminished for emotional reasons. And when these are resolved, the egg count can go up. And Remi slow egg count makes it made sense to me. After hearing her story. Maybe my issues are related to my childhood. My parents fought lots and lots and they divorced when I was four. My mom was abusive and paid very little attention to me. Then, I acted in a school play and I loved it. Acting was my escape from the fear and the craziness at home.
Tell me about your roles.
I mostly played bad guys and psychopath and I've played some really dark aggressive types.
I sensed that Remy his body was confused. Her body had been used like an on and off switch.
I think that your personal identity and your body's identity have become separated from another I told her it's possible that your body is confused.
Yes, that's true. My body has become a vehicle I use for my acting. When I rehearse and act I am totally immersed in my role, sometimes for months and months at a time.
The good news is, you're so skilled at role playing that you have a great advantage when we come to the fertility embodiment practice. But first, we had to work on Ruby remedies, childhood trauma. She had never experienced a loving, caring mother and she had no idea how to mother herself. That was our starting point. And slowly, Remi learned that self care was more, more and more than just getting a massage and getting a facial. And she detected a deep tenderness towards herself that surprised and moved her and she began to mother herself in previously an imaginal ways.
If you are interested in getting more stories, knowing more about unexplained infertility go to an explained infertility.com and you can sign up for weekly storytime getting audio tips and tools go to the naked truth of unexplained infertility.com That is the naked truth of an explained infertility.com. Now with Remi, the mind body work paid off very quickly. Remy is a major levels went up and they had been low for years and they started to arise and she enjoyed the assignments I gave her to act and embody her pregnant self. Needless to say that she was good at this in time, she became pregnant naturally, and she gave birth to a baby boy, here's the thing with Remy, she was so good at acting. And what was in her advantage in that is in the fertility journey, when you've released the blocks and you've released the fears and and you've moved from not trusting your body to trusting your body, trusting your womb believing yourself, then an important aspect is in the good pregnant journey, to start to embody that new vibration to start to feel that your body can do its and daily practice this because that brings you in that state of being and your body listens. So with Remy when we released the deeper fears and blocks, and she became in that state, that was all she did. So then when she became pregnant, she could really hold that this isn't a very important piece. In my book, The Naked Truth of unexplained infertility. I have lots of stories about all these woman 55 women, stories of woman between the ages of 35 and 47 how they got pregnant and you can go to the naked truth of unexplained infertility.com That is the naked truth of unexplained infertility.com. And browse rounds and sign up for weekly storytime, the pregnancy pick me ups where you get weekly, I give you tools and tips and stories.
And I know that when you find the reason there is an explanation in almost every situation, there is an explanation. But you have to look deeper and find what that is otherwise you waste so much money, years and years of trying and you still don't have your baby in your arms and don't give up hope and I know that it's possible for you. Thanks so much for listening. If you're looking to get pregnant, I want to help you go to the description or link to set up a fertility consultation or take our fertility block quiz. Or the is my egg ready for my baby quiz to figure out what is stopping you from conceiving your baby. I am sending you so many sweet baby whispers my wish for you is to become a happy mom.
